Ahh truly the season of change.
I never thought my “Falling Out or Falling Back” chapter of “From Darkness To Sunshine” would be so prophetic and leading into my second book.
But here we are.
You look at your long lost friends on social media having fun. Some is because they’re in a different area code now. Others is because they excluded you. Either way it hurts.
The best thing to do is to rekindle things with the friends that you haven’t hung with in a while. If they are resistant, you must take your L and move on. I have more of a series coming to deal with exclusion during the social season.
Basically, know your worth and don’t be afraid to retool your circle. Everyone won’t stay loyal and many will eventually come back. You have to focus on the ones that reciprocate your interests. Hang with the ones with a future and not a past.
There are plenty of outlets to hang out and meet people so don’t fret. You don’t have to sit around and be sad looking at pics forever. You have your memories and the best gift: the present. Present day of course.